Upset the Vows 

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This course is for every couple who desires to strengthen their marriage and see it flourish! Tim Ross and his wife Juliette will share their wisdom with you on how to repair and strengthen your marriage in whatever state it is currently in. God’s desire is for us to have healthy, successful and fulfilling marriages, and this can only be achieved if we center our marriages on Christ. Through this course, you will be provided a biblical understanding of marriage and be given helpful strategies to nourish your relationship.

Tim and Juliette don’t skip the hard stuff and they delve into some of the trickier questions and situations you can experience going through trials in marriage. Upset the Vows will be a powerful resource for you and your spouse and one that you will want to share with other couples too!

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International Speaker | Podcast Host

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Ministry Leader | Podcast Host

How is your marriage right now? Amazing? Mediocre? Or stale and in need of some help? What is the secret to a good marriage? Tim and Juliette will share their secrets to how they survived over two decades of marriage. Join them as they provide practical steps to take your marriage from struggling to thriving!

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The Vows 

Marriage Is a Covenant 

Your marriage vows are serious and shouldn’t be entered into lightly. Have you forgotten these vows? Understanding these vows could change the way you look at your marriage.

You Gave Your Word

im reminds you of some important things to remember with the commitment you made on your wedding day.

Don't Be Scared, Just Take It Seriously 

Tim advises you not to be scared of marriage, but to recognize the significance of the vows.

Unpack Your Bags 

Dealing With Baggage

Everyone comes into their relationships with baggage. What we do with that baggage is the issue. Tim shares how to unpack your bags.

Organize Your Baggage 

Your baggage is your responsibility. Tim shares practical ways to organize your baggage.

Where Are You? 

God asked Adam in the Garden “Where are you?” Tim correlates this scene with our lives today and asks us the same question.

Get With God 

Tim shares the importance of bringing your baggage to God.

Get Naked 

Vulnerability in Marriage

Tim invites you to get naked! Well, more specifically get vulnerable with your partner.

How to Get Naked 

Tim shares what it takes to get naked and vulnerable with your spouse.

Don't Be Afraid to Try Again 

What do you do if you’ve opened up and felt rejected? Tim shares some strategies to help you try again.

Help Each Other 

Being a Helpmate 

Tim outlines how essential it is as a couple to help each other out.

For What? 

What are we helping each other for? Tim explains that in marriage, we can help each other out to be better for life and the future.

Upset the Vows Introduction 

Foundations 

Find out what Tim believes is the secret to being married for the long haul.

God the Officiant 

The Bible starts and ends with marriage. God instituted marriage and will ultimately fulfill The Marriage in the end.

Marriage Shows Jesus 

Tim explains three ways in which marriage explains Jesus.

The Secret's Out 

The secret is out - that your marriage is a picture of the church. Tim shares what this looks like.

Keeping the Main Thing, the Main Thing 

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Tim and Juliette explain that marriage is about the long haul and not just the wedding day.

Sacrifice and Broken Vows

Tim and Juliette share how sacred marriage vows are and what happens when they are broken.

‘Till Death Do Us Part 

Marriage is a lifelong commitment. “Until death do us part” is a vow you make as a couple, but sometimes no matter how much you committed to those vows, there may be things that happened outside of your control that damage the marriage covenant.

The Decision You Never Wanted to Make 

No one plans on marriage and considers divorce when saying their vows. Sometimes there are irreconcilable differences or situations where divorce may be an option. Tim and Juliette discuss the biblical grounds for divorce and when you should consider them.

Become H.O.T. 

Tim and Juliette talk openly about their strategy for transparency in marriage.

Reacting When Your Partner Gets H.O.T. 

How do you react when your partner opens up and shares things you don’t want to hear?

Risk It All: Vulnerability Is Worth It 

Vulnerability paves the way for positive changes in your marriage.

"S" Is for Submission 

Believe it or not, submission in your marriage is actually sexy!

What Submission Looks Like 

It’s hard to imagine healthy submission so Tim and Juliette role model it for you in this segment.

Submission Enables Intimacy 

Tim and Juliette share some of the benefits of submitting to one another.

The Power of Prayer in Marriage 

Tim and Juliette shares about the importance of prayer in your marriage.

Upset the Vows Conclusion 

Tim concludes this section with words of encouragement and some final thoughts to put his advice into practice.

The "S" Word 

Tim shares how biblical submission can be sexy and can strengthen your marriage.

Mutually Submitted 

Tim explains what submission looks like from a biblical perspective.

Submission in Context 

Tim addresses when submission has been taken out of context and misused.

Your guide, Tim Ross

Your guide, Juliette Ross